Wednesday, November 30, 2005

More photos!

Just added new photos for Punjab, Uttar Pradesh, Mumbai, Goa and Karnataka.

Today we are leaving for Tamil Nadu - a hill station in the Western Ghats called Ooty (it actually has a new name no-one can pronounce). Fleeces at the ready!

Jxx

Monday, November 28, 2005

Family vote on the best & worst of India...

We feel like we've traveled a continent already and we are only in our first country destination. There is so much we have experienced from mindblowing landscapes and immersion in culture, to a country ravaged by poverty and pollution. From the humerous and heart warming, to the scary and the downright weird, we feel smaller and bigger, weaker and stronger, just like India. There is so much to love and so much to hate, all at the same time. This blog site is just a snippet of our adventures and the stories we could tell.

So we've had a family vote on the best and worst of India so far. Here are the results:


Best Places We've Stayed (these places have a WOW factor that sets them apart from places that are just OK):
  • The Green Hotel, Mysore, Karnataka. Beautifully restored palace, eco-tastic, fair trade, awesome rooms. Room price includes a buffet breakfast that makes lunch obselete. 2 double rooms costs us 2800 rupees per night (bit of a birthday treat)
  • Yak Tail Hotel, Leh, Ladakh. Oldest and characterful hotel in Leh, super friendly staff, spacious and cosy adjoining family room - and hot water (which is a real luxury up in Leh). Two double rooms adjoining cost us 1000 rupees per night.
  • Dersy's Guesthouse, Agonda Beach, Goa. Lovely little cottage and beach huts on quiet beach. Sociable restaurant with a fab tandoor, safe place for children to have complete freedom, excellent body surfing (enough for fun but not so much someone might drown) and a big up to Regan, Jesus and the rest of the family there, who take really good care of everybody. Spotless adjoining double rooms - 400 rupees (what a bargain!).
  • Yellow Guesthouse, McLeod Ganj, Dharamshala, Himachel Pradesh. Chilled basic place run by friendly Tibetan and Indian. Balcony fronted rooms overlooking farm and village valley areas. Rooms next door to each other. Two doubles cost us 350 rupees per night.
  • Mrs Bhandaris Guesthouse, Amritsar, Punjab. Funky art deco guesthouse, lovely staff, free internet. The Den is perfect for a family of 4. Cost about 1800 rupees per night.
Worst Places We've Stayed:
  • Chand Palace Hotel, Pahar Ganj, Delhi. Cockroach infested filthy building site! Courtesy of Ebookers, 20 pounds per night.
  • Chandra (HPTDC) aka 'The Shining' Hotel, Keylong, Himachel Pradesh. Nuff said!
  • Beach accommodation at Gokarna (Om and Kudlee) - nice fishing village & great food in town but we don't want to stay on the beach in a tarpaulined spiders nest with no view, no mossie net, no fan, no window, no balcony.....
Best Places We've Eaten:
  • Lamayuru Darbar, Leh, Ladakh - best thali ever!
  • McLo's & Nick's Kitchen - great continental food in Mc Leod Ganj. Kids loved the ice-cream parlour!
  • Madhur Milan Darbar, Dasaswarmedh Ghat, Varanasi. A saving grace for this filthy place.
  • The Green Hotel, Mysore. We can't say enough good things about this place.
  • World Peace Cafe, Leh.
Best Experiences so Far:
  • Trekking & gompa stomping in Ladakh.
  • Beach life on Agonda, bouldering, body surfing and early morning yoga on the beach.
  • Community kitchen and early morning puja at The Golden Temple, Amritsar.
Best Places We've Visited:
  • Ladakh
  • McLeod Ganj
  • Hampi
  • Mysore
  • Gokarna
Worst Places We've Visited:
  • Pahar Ganj in the rain (Delhi)
  • Agra
  • Mangalore
  • Varanasi
Best Buildings We've Visited
  • Gompas of Alchi & Lamayuru, Ladakh
  • Maharaja's Palace, Mysore
  • Hampi Temples
  • Humayun's Tomb, Delhi
  • Agra Fort

Saturday, November 26, 2005

Hampi, Gokarna, Mangalore and Mysore - phew!

And so we dragged ourselves away from Goa. This was a very difficult thing to do, especially leaving our new found family at Agonda and the chilled out day to day life we were all enjoying. Lazing in a hammock after riding warm waves in the Arabian Sea, playing carrom (an indian game involving an edged board with four pockets, smooth circular pieces and a sprinkle of flour) and long easy chats with new friends. Life was good.

Onto Hampi, along red dusty roads in a bouncy jeep with Kay, Guy and Martin and the four of us. Our driver's organiser (who hitches a lift to near the Goan border, kindly informs us we may have to tell the police we are Rajesh's friends if we get stopped at the border. It becomes clear he doesn't have an interstate permit for tourists. Amazingly we experience numerous lucky moments (including a back road through a hotel grounds and some distracted police officers) and avert a potentially difficult situation. It turns out to be rather fun. We drive for 8 or 9 hours, getting lost a few times and taking in an excellent darbar in the middle of endless fields filled with chillis and sunflowers. We arrive late in Hampi and miss the boat for our plans to stay across the river. Turns out this is a good thing too. Hampi is an ancient walled village with narrow alleys between whitewashed houses and mesmerising columned walkways and more temples than you can shake a joss stick at. This is a holy place and it feels like it too. The people are friendly and helpful and we decide to stay in a new little guesthouse with lilac walls and huge mosquito nets.

The landscape is awesome (and dusty hot). Huge boulders perch on hillsides scattered between 400-500 year old temples on almost every horizon. Huge walkways with ancient pillars and giant slabs of sandstone outline this ancient and atmospheric village. Have a wonderful evening watching the sunset from The Mango Tree. A beautiful restaurant with a swing and a mouthwatering menu, watching men in coricals swirl down the river.

Our driver is waiting to take us to Gokarna in the morning, so another long dusty journey. It's my birthday the next day so I was hoping for some more beach life and relaxation.

We arrive on the North Karntakan coastline late in the evening again and take rooms at modern hotel in town. Gokarna beach is nothing to write home about, but we want to take a boat to the other bays. No boats today, so myself, Guy, Kay and Martin walk over the headland to Kudlee. Nice enough beach but the accommodation is distinctly unbirthday-like! Oh how I hanker for some SE Asian craftmanship, local materials, proper thatching... Not this concrete, poor thatch, low roofed, no windows, no fan, no nets, no balcony (not that there's much point when they all seem to face away from the sea) and as for the blue tarpaulin that scars the tree line - my word that stuff is ugly!

The others book into Shanti and we return to Gokarna where I hop a rickshaw to Om beach. This is not such a nice place. Very isolated, you can't swim in the sea because of the depth and currents and the travellers here are a tad unfriendly. More crappy accommodation. I return mid afternoon exhausted and baked, and feeling very unbirthday-like.

Lee cheers me up with a lovely silk dress as a pressie and then heads off to Kudlee and manages to get lost. Several hours later he returns baked and exhausted and we decide that we are too tired for all this hiking about and given that the beaches aren't that great, we decide to head further south. We spend the next day exploring Gokarna, lovely sleepy indian fishing village, very religious and the best homemade curd we've tasted in India. We feast on dosas, thalis, lassi and ice-cream. Then take an afternoon local train from the laziest station where even the air seems to be snoozing, to Mangalore, hoping for an R&R treat at the Summer Sands resort.

Mangalore is a grubby busy city, not many foreigners, alot of muslims and pervy men who stare too much. Too much attention - it's not a nice place to be as a woman. Maya feels the same. Lee has a better experience enjoying the freedom from street sellers and he sells English coins at a favourable exchange rate to a group of friendly locals.Starting to feel like there is a distinct relationship between religious fundamentalism and the men with their perverted staring and attempts to grope. As for Summer Sands resort - it's a tropical housing estate with lofty tatty cottages and a manky pool. The beach is ugly and no swimming allowed. More blue tarp, no breakfasts other than idli, and no alcohol (I officially postpone my birthday!).

We leave the next day. We travel with Maya, our new Canadian friend (and Rocky mountain guide to boot). Unfortunately, the time has come to take the dreaded sleeper bus. We soon find out why no-one likes these things as the Indian woman on the opposite bunk flies out of bed and only wakes up as she crashes to the floor. I also suspect these buses may play a role in bladder infections. No-one should have to hold it for that long!

We are fabulously rewarded when we reach Mysore. A wonderfully busy town, few tourists but lots of smiles and the best bit.... we are staying at a fantastic eco-hotel. A former palace of the Maharaja's sister, beautifully restored and maintained, well though out and tranquil gardens (from the mosquito eating fish to the abundance of butterfly attracting flowers). The staff tell us this a great place to work and you can see it in there faces. Much smiling and chatter and the best service I've seen so far in India. A waiter tells us they give job opportunities to tha poorer families, with great training and fair pay for everyone. All the profits go to local health charities. Solar panels, recycling, traditional (dobi) laundry, energy efficient lighting, and crikey this place is clean!

We all decide it is time to celebrate my birthday and so we are staying here for a while. Mysore has much to see from the old palaces and wonderful markets, to museums and art galleries, and some of the best food in India, oh, and internet.

Wednesday, November 16, 2005

Goa at last!

After an epic 27 1/2 hour train journey from Varanasi to Mumbai, we enjoyed some colonnial luxury in the big city. Lovely afternoon watching cricket at the Oval Maidan and an evening stroll down ocean drive to admire the New York style skyline and the filthy sea that no-one can swim in anymore - including the fish! Did a bit of expensive (relatively so) shopping and ate delicious pasta and scrummy cakes at Mumbai's latest euro-style cafe 'Basilico'.

Another train journey to Margao in Goa. Lush 2AC curtained cabin (4 bed) - oh the luxury of a little privacy. Arrived refreshed and relaxed in Margoa. We went straight to south Goa as the north is Costa del Nightmare. So much for Palolem, supposed to be Goa's 'paradise lost' but more like lost, found then trashed.

We found ourselves a lovely quiet beach just up the coast where we've been chillin for a week or so. Clean surfy sea, plam fringed sandy beach, fresh food and lovely guesthouse. Place to ourselves besides a few other travellers, who've we've hooked up with in the hiring of big jeep and are off to Hampi together for 3 day excursion, then onto Gokarna. There's talk of another tsunami around the 19th (I just think it's possibly annual post trauma panic - some mad man on the beach in Patnem - nostrodamus or nutter, who knows? But more worryingly a few fishermen are talking about it). We're glad we're in the Hampi hills then anyway, but will be hoping Patnem prophet has just had a touch of sunstroke.

The children are loving beach life (as are we) and we're all now very healthy and relaxed. Plan to head south to through Karnataka to Kerala for xmas. We spend our days building sand sharks, with mussel shells for teeth and mughal-esque sand castles and forts, or lazing in the hammock with a good book, or body surfing in the the warm Arabian sea. There's just enough surf for lots of fun without quite drowning us - although the approach of tonight's full moon has given us some strong tides this last day or two. Relax in the evening with some great people - good company and a cold beeror two on the moonlit beach watching shooting stars.

Well time to return to Agonda. Probably be out of touch for a week or two again now as it's blissfully quiet and empty where we are and where we plan to go next. Few travellers and therefore few facilities. But we have everything we need - sun, sand and surf with a nice thali on the side :)

Saturday, November 05, 2005

Holy cow! It's Varanasi

We left Delhi as quickly as possible and took a 16hr train journey to Varanasi for the Diwali celebrations. The journey was very pleasant as we made friends with the Indian family from London and another couple from Lucknow (about 100km west of Varanasi). Talked politics, children, health, life in India, Malaysia (the father was Indo-malay) and the UK while drinking chai and eating cake and bananas. We were in 3 AC, which is air conditioned with 6 bunks per block. It's ok but the smell of feet and urine (being trodden across the floors from the toilets) was getting a bit ripe by the time we got to Varanasi.

As India's holiest Hindu city, we were all very excited about what was to come, especially as so many of our friends and fellow travellers recommended it. Are you all mad? I'm having a little trouble finding divinity here as we suffocate on the smog, plagues of insects and the filthy cesspit that is the Ganges.

We found a nice hotel in the Cantonment area (because lets face it, we're not 19yr old students trying to survive on a shoestring, and why should we?). It's well away from the original flea and mossie pit I booked down by the river. I was immediately struck by how dirty the place is (not in the Cantonment which is comparatively spotless). More so than anywhere we've been (except Agra - but don't even get me started on that tourist hellhole). Piles of burning rubbish and dense spluttering traffic everywhere churn out thick polluted smoke into the densely smoggy sky. Asthmatics beware - bring plenty of steroids!

It was Diwali eve, so we took a rickshaw to the market and got totally lost in the narrow crammed alleyways. A very unpleasant and unnerving experience for us all (and several men got punched or elbowed for what would be classed as assault back in UK). We finally resurfaced on the main road leading to the river. Went down to the 'Ganga' for a quiet stroll - no such luck. While Lee enjoyed a vigourous neck and shoulder massage, the children and I were besieged by touts and beggars. So far on our journey, travelling as a family has been a blessing. We have earned greater respect and friendliness - families are universal after all. But here (and to some extent in Agra) the children are targeted by the touts too, especially the child touts. Tevo and Roisin are really sick of it, and after much pawing and grabbing, I took my best assertive stance and demanded they lay off (I can say several useful phrases in Hindi now). I couldn't even see the Ganges through the crowd we had drawn. I bought a silk shawl to hide behind (and matches my salweer kameez {Indian long top and loose trouser suit} I have been living in for the last few days). The children lit 'puja' candles and set them adrift on the river.

Pilgrims flock to this place for puja and it is said, those who are cremated here are released from the cycle of birth and death and that the river washes away all your sins. I thought I'd probably have to immerse myself for redemption from my past, but settled for bathing my hands and forehead. BAD idea - I have had explosive diaorreah since! The Ganges is so polluted there is no oxygen left and nothing lives in this basin area apart from the rubbish, excretia and burnt human remains. It may be holy to Hindus but it's a foul cesspit and a major public health hazard. Water bourne diseases are rife along the basin and because of the current plague of insects, many people (including travellers) are getting very sick here.

We bumped into our Japanese friend, Tij, who we did some excursions with in McLeod Ganj. He's having a love/hate time here too. But he recommended a great cafe, where the children have been dragging us back for masala dosas ona regular basis. This is not a bad thing since the hotel food is not great.

The next morning, we took a dawn boat trip along the river, lighting puja candles and watching Diwali morning ablutions along the river. The sun took hours to break through the smog and as we floated through the untreated sewage, it was hard to understand how such a holy place can be allowed to reach such degradation. Hindus think the british are a bit odd, the way we tames nature in our gardens with flowerbeds and lawns, and believe nature should be allowed to take its own path. So how can it be okay to poison nature in this way? Furthermore, after a long chat with a waiter from Kolkatta, it appears that the government show little concern for this. Instead they are much happier to spend billions of dollors on US-Indo war schemes. Meanwhile this beautiful country is rotting from the outside in. What a strange country this is. A developing country no doubt, like a cross between our Victorian times (with dangerous forms of child labour, extreme poverty and severe lack of basic public health needs like sewage systems) and a rigid class (caste) system, bound in the opiated effects of religion that Marx so famously believed controlled people to accept their fate and position in life, and at the same time an influx of modernism and capaitalism that further poisons the land and encases the poor in a poverty trap with no escape. Tourists are the cash cow, so to speak, the only chance many people get to make a living beyond their basic food and shelter needs.

Quick example - our rickshaw driver, Patel, on a good day makes 500 rupees of which he gets to keep about 150 after he has paid his boss (the rickshaw owner) and the numerous fees and taxes that are everywhere. This is about 2 pounds. He cannot save any money or buy anything that is beyond the basic needs of his family. He lives in a hut in the country just outside Varanasi with family. Does he like it here? A definite no. He says he will never get a chance to make a difference to his life or his family. I have asked this of several locals and migrant workers and they all say the same thing. A few people 'own' all the businesses and the masses get a pittance for working from dawn til dusk and are trapped in this dirty polluted place. No wonder the poor souls want to be released from the cycle of birth and death.

Back to our trip - we took a short tour of some of the temples, but the holiest of them was a dirty as the river, so we gave up and went back to the hotel for brekkie and a swim in their brand new pool with stunning waterfall.

On Diwali night, the sky lit up with the most extraordinary fireworks. the kind that would never make it into the UK. Like small bombs going off, buildings shook and more smoke filled the already gloomy sky. The hotel gave us a fine display, almost setting fire to some of the waiters with unruly catherine wheels and exploding rockets.

After a day or two's rest (and severe wheezing on my part), we have decided on a few things. Firstly, the tourist trail of mid Northern India is horrible. After the laid back Himalaya, we have decided this is not what we came for. The Taj Mahal was wholly disappointing and Varanasi is just, well, very messy! The dust, heat and touts we can expect in Rajasthan sound a little too much, so we have abandoned this plan and have now booked ourselves an extraordinarily long train journey (26hrs) to Mumbai, then onto Goa (another 10 hrs) for some birthday shindigs for me. After this, we plan to spend more time in Karnataka and Kerala. Rumour has it, its cleaner down there and the people are more gentle and laid back. Here's hoping!

Last night, after more masala dosas and thali at our favourite cafe, we went to see evening puja at the river. A fine display a lights, ceremonial brahmin bell ringing and incense burning. Some cows joined us to watch, then promptly pooped and peed all over people. But since they are so holy, even when they started getting a bit frisky and kicking out, everyone just makes way for the cow.

This afternoon, we are off to Sarnath where Buddha found enlightenment. I'm very excited. I can't wait for the company of gentle lamas (monks), beautiful stupas and hopefully some tout free time.

Jackie xx

Wednesday, November 02, 2005

Mughal tombs, tourists, touts and bombs

The closing ceremony at Pakistan border has become a major attraction and consequently large banks of concrete seating have been erected. We are crammed in with thousands of party mood Indians. The guys next to me had come from Delhi for the day and were returning that night.
The Pakistani contingent numbered 11 that I saw. However, I think the Pak guards won the high leg and wobble shake thrust moves. A fun spectacle followed by big chats with scores of people.

Next morning we are up at 4.10am and on the train to New Delhi. At Delhi Station and with predictable difficulty, Jac manages to get train tickets to Agra, back to Delhi and then to Varanasi just in time for Diwali. In the afternoon we take in the incredibly elaborate Mughal Humayan's tomb and surrounding buildings which have us all agape. The site is one of India's 22 world heritage sites and a lot of money has been used to carefully rebuild a lot and very well. But the architects mausoleum, one of few not renewed, was more intruiging, small patches of original paint clinging to cracking domes and sandstone corners eroded into more organic shapes.

That night we stumbled around Chandni Chowk market, travel weary and bleary brained before sleeping .

Next day and back on the train to Agra and a promise of the Taj Mahal to Tevo and Roisin.
The station has "tourist money" written all over it. The high pressure rickshaw/taxi drivers' battle to get you commences and we opt for a green (emissions tested) rickshaw. Our hotel is good and we set out on two cycle rickshaws to Taj Gang. The thing in Agra now is to get you by hook or by crook or by constant jibbering at you, even to the extent of crashing together going the wrong way around a roundabout with a squashed finger for Tevo (he's ok) to go to into a shop. Carpet, jewellry and marble shops pay a commission to any driver bringing a wallet, sale or no sale.
Next day we visit Agra Fort, an outstanding Mughal site with decades of differing styles from early pre-dominant sandstone to later marble creations. We opt for sunset at the Taj Mahal which is pointless as the smog here obliterates any sun set or rise spectacle. The security check is worse than an airport with an outrageous amount of tourists and touts, oh and also it costs a relative fortune. It does take your breath away but at the same time conjers up images of power crazed Emperors and the slave artisans who's fingers were removed so another creation so perfect could not be reproduced. And all for the love of a dead wife. I cant help thinking the fort is a lot more architecturally and historically interesting.

Fighting our way back through hawkers and sellers we have a delay at Agra train station. The permanent station beggar population with varying degrees of necessity and the sorry soul with bad elephantitus guage our Indian experience, we are well accustomed to these situations now.
After a quick two hour sprinter train and rather good on board thali we're back in New Delhi train station late at night wondering why we seem to have come down the rear (non Parhar Gang) exit...

Next morning the newspaper headlines reveal the atrocity and horror of the market bombs yesterday evening. We are appalled and incredibly upset.